Sunday, May 20, 2012

Abuse of the MIND


Are you being emotionally abused??

I really want you to THINK about this, hard.  

If you can't feel love from someone who says they love you, it's NOT love.

REPEAT: LOVE SHOULD FEEL LIKE LOVE.

Listen to your INSTINCTS, your EMOTIONAL RESPONSES in every situation.

Listen and protect yourself against harm.  Set Boundaries


In the past...

How have your parents treated you?
Do you feel they don't let you become the person you want to be?
Do you feel they demand obedience from you through FORCE of will?

How have your boyfriends and/or husband(s) treated you?
Do you feel they use you only for sex?  
Do you ever feel that they can't share other parts of 
themselves with you in an emotionally healthy way?  
Do you feel they demean you?
Do you feel inadequate around them?

Do others in society regulate your sexuality?
Do you feel you are being shoved into a BOX?  
Do you feel pressure to be something you don't want to be, 
and even forced into being something you don't want to be?
Does your sexuality feel  like it SHOULD be
more than horny, sexy, inadequate, or dirty?

Do others make you feel different, ugly, wretched?
Do others make you  feel like you don't belong because of your ethnic makeup?  
Do you feel uneasy in a grocery store or in a shopping mall 
where your ethnicity doesn't predominate?

Do you  feel  GUILTY for being YOURSELF?

REMEMBER: Abuse isn't always a clear WORD-GAME.
Emotional abuse takes different forms.
Emotional abuse IS SUBTLE and INVISIBLE.  
This is how domination and submission works.

NEVER TAKE THE PATH OF LEAST RESISTANCE!

STAND UP FOR YOUR RIGHTS!

RESIST DOMINATION!

RESIST SUBMISSION!

Emotional abuse is the most common way oppressed peoples of the world 
are held under the control of those who are our abusers.

Yes, that's right.

World capitalism is based on the domination of the false categories of 
adult white heterosexual men who
 UTILIZE 
Emotional and Physical abuse 
to 
CONTROL, MANIPULATE, and DISTORT 
our 
minds, hearts, and bodies.

This is TERRORISM

A terrorism so intimate that it infiltrates our very thoughts, emotions, minds, and souls.  

This is a RAPE of the mind, body, and SOUL.

Emotional abuse is CLEAN VIOLENCE.  It leaves no marks, no PROOF of abuse.

This is the perfect weapon. . . 
A weapon used by the dominators of a world system based on ABUSE of its people.
This weapon annihilates personal identity, and shames.
It destroys the oppressed people's of the world sense of SELF.


REMEMBER: Love is not, nor will it EVER be:



Critical       Shaming  Abusive      Controlling      Manipulative

Demeaning     Humiliating     Separating     Discounting

Diminishing        Belittling        Negative       Traumatic

Painful most of the time            etc.

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